Haven't written in here in so long....
This time of the year is so hard because there really isn't anything interesting to talk about...
Well the whole legal thing is still looming... I am gonna give you the bare bones now... I suppose it can't hurt..
Basically what happened is Ryan and I met a woman online in a yahoo chatroom... one thing led to another and we decided to get together specifically for a 3-some, When the time came, things went horribly wrong, after a while eventhough she participated with me we realized She only was there for her interest in him... The next morning came and I basically kicked her out at sunrise... ( she lived 80 miles away and I'd picked her up ) She got dropped off at a local gas station and had to round up a ride home... Weeks later a detective showed up on our doorstep asking Ryan if he knew her... She'd files a report ( 3 days after the day we were together ) claiming Ryan Raped her and that I was a co-conspirator... If you know Ryanor I you would know we have no interst in that... We were looking for a fun time, But picked the wrong woman...
For a while after we were confronted by that we were nervous about pursuing our interest in that lifestyle... But since then we have continued to talk to people on Adultfriendfinder.com and feel a little more secure that we just made the wrong decision in picking her.
So that is the big secret... If convicted Ryan faces 15 yrs in prison and I am sure face jail time too... But it's our story against hers... and obviously she's lying so.... So many things will go against her...
This was a very embarrassing situation... having to lay out pages of IM's of all of us saying in not uncertian way what we wanted to do when we were together, there were even pictures taken that night... ones I wouldn't want most people to see...

So that's it... big secret
We have an awesome Lawyer, We'll be alright...

Like I said we are more careful with who we are planning to meet up with these days... we haven't actually yet, But we plan to go to a meet and greet party through that website next Thursday... More discreet and everyone KNOWS why they are there...We've talked to a few couples but besides talk that's as far as we've gotten...

Time will tell... who knows we may just blow the whole scene off...